Essay (2023.11)

Nov 22, 2023#随笔292

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The narrator has recently met a polite and kind girl, feeling a deep emotional connection despite initially suppressing their feelings. A phone call unexpectedly brought them closer, creating a false sense of compatibility. The narrator reflects on the curiosity and skepticism people have about each other, especially regarding the complexities of an avoidant INFP personality. They express frustration over delayed responses to messages and note that attraction often stems from similarity, while love is fueled by curiosity and the unknown, reminiscent of themes in "Love in the Time of Cholera."

Introduction#

During this period, I met a girl who was polite and seemed full of goodwill. Her language was plain but soulful. I kept telling myself that I just lacked this kind of emotion, always suppressing it, not wanting it to be abstract, but specific. That day, by chance, I called her and happened to hear what she said. It felt like our relationship instantly became closer, creating an illusion that we were a perfect match.

Unintentionally, the cold wind blew the willows and also blew off the remaining snow on the trees.

People initially hold curiosity and doubt. Curious about what kind of person you are, what kind of person you are in reality, and doubting if what you say is true. What would an avoidant INFP attachment style look like?

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Lately, I've been speechless, taking more than 10 hours to reply to messages every day. Who knows what the reason is this time.
Attraction stems from similarity, and liking stems from the unknown and curiosity. Just like in "Love in the Time of Cholera," curiosity is also one of the disguises of love.